How far along? 29 Weeks exactly
Maternity clothes? Yes. But this sweater isn’t a maternity sweater. It’s got about 2 days left of life in it, so I figured I’d give it a last hurrah. I’m still loving those jeans. :)
Best moment this week: Finishing 3 cloth diapers! I’m pretty proud of myself. Also, Cameron gave me a rub down, followed by practicing some counter-pressure/labor techniques. All I gotta say is the riboso (sp?)  is life changing. Also, I do NOT have gestational diabetes. boo-yah! Thanks for not liking treats boys! I was really worried about that because gestational diabetes comes from the placenta. Since I have 2 placentas, I was at greater risk for it, or so they say. I’m just grateful I don’t have to worry about that. I’m having a hard enough time getting enough calories as it is.
Movement: Yes. GRAY GOT OFF MY RIBS. 10 gold stars for that kid. He is the BEST. I have no idea how he found a little extra room to get comfy, but I am so grateful. I’m sure he’ll be back up there eventually, but it sure has been nice!
Food cravings: Fruits & veggies. Also, rootbeer. And ice cream. Weirdy. Those are actually current cravings. Perhaps a caffeine-free pepsi float? I think I mostly just want the carbonation. OMG DR. PEPPER. (I’m worthless. Are you getting that?)
Labor Signs: None. Nash is using my cervix as a punching bag lately. That’s a weird sensation.
Belly Button in or out? I’m pretty impressed with how well my button is hanging in there. lol. I thought for sure it’d be popped by now, but no. There’s a tiny corner that is flirting with the line, but other than that it’s just stretched.
What I miss: Not gonna lie, I had a utter and complete meltdown because I was no longer young and hip and fun and hot. It was fueled by the realization that no one would mistakenly come up and hit on me if we happened to be out at a party of some sort. (Totally rational, I know.) I was also looking through a bunch of fun date ideas and couldn’t muster up the energy for any of it. Cam came home to a crying wife and wails of “I’m the lamest of the lame!” over and over again. I also believe I asked him if he was OK that I had no plans for a date, but wanted to get out of the house. We ended up getting some food at Costco (where TWO separate women commented on how cute I looked…tender mercy from the Big Guy? I think so.) and sitting on the floor of DI (a thrift store) looking through childrens’ books. (I found TACKY: the penguin for $.75. Major score!)
What I am looking forward to: Baby Shower this week! Also, my sister just came and picked up everything to finish up THIS. I can’t WAIT to see it all finished!
Milestones: Nash’s head has dropped. I’m not dilating at all, which is nice, but the Dr. did say that he really has no room to move and he’s ready to go when the time comes. That’s kind of crazy for me to think about. Also, my list of people who are due before me is dwindling. Babies are being born, people!
Realization of the week: Height helps with this whole pregnancy thing. I thought I would be WAY more uncomfortable than I really am at this point. Sure, I have a hard time getting up out of the car or putting on pants in the morning, but after that I’m really just fine. I don’t realize how much bigger I’ve gotten until I see the picture we take for these updates. Major respect to you more petite ladies. I’m measuring 36 weeks right now for a singleton pregnancy and I’m pretty sure if I was having one baby, I would not get the full discomfort of pregnancy. Don’t you worry, I’ll be measuring 44+ before this is all over. All’s fair. :)

Also, I was reading through past journal entries from during IVF and my word I was blessed with one of the most incredible husbands on this earth. I’m sure he had a ton of emotions to sort through too, but he spent every bit of energy he had taking care of me, making sure I was ok, protecting me from well-intentioned idiotic comments, etc. He is such a good man. And me and these boys are the LUCKIEST to have him as a husband and father.

How far along? 28 Weeks 1 Day
Maternity clothes? Yes. Although the black shirt in the picture isn’t a maternity shirt. In fact, it’s my “I don’t want to feel huge today” shirt. Also known as the “magic black shirt.” It makes me look smaller than I really am from the front. From the side, it’s really impossible to look smaller, but that’s ok! I like that we have big boys.
Best moment this week: Lotion rubs before bed. Cam rubs lotion on my belly before we go to sleep and the boys just kick and kick. I like it when all four of us are connected that way.
Movement: All the time. It’s wonderful. Poor Gray is running out of room. He is up on my ribs and if I cough, his head gets smashed against my ribs. If I sneeze, same story. Baths and Ice Packs are helping the soreness at this point.
Food cravings: Just food. And I can’t get enough water. Still no chocolate really. I want fruits and veggies all the time. And I love spicy things. Yum. :)
Labor Signs: None really. Practice “surges” (I’m reading hypnobirthing…) come and go pretty often, but everything stops if I lay down and keep drinking water.
Belly Button in or out? Pretty sure the end is near. Still in though. :)
What I miss: Nothing really right now. I have good time with my husband. The boys are healthy and growing well. We have a beautiful home and I am blessed enough to be able to be at home right now working on my homemaking skills. This is something I’ve dreamed of since I was a little girl. It is already better than I imagined it would be.
What I am looking forward to: Actually getting the guts up to sew the first cloth diaper. Yesterday I sat and stared at it for about an hour. It’s just intimidating to me! Also, plans are moving forward for a baby shower here in Utah! I keep getting e-mails from the girls putting it on and I am getting SO excited! (If you want an invite, e-mail or comment with your address). :)
Milestones: We are officially in the 3rd trimester! This also means that the boys can come any time from here on out and they will be fine. (Granted, it would take a lot of modern technology to keep them healthy), but we’re just cutting down NICU time from now on. These boys are ACTUALLY coming to our family. We will get to meet them. I just can’t wait.
Realization of the week: I am looking forward to the little things the most, I think. I keep dreaming about their features. Their hair, eyes, nose, toes, little beany bodies, everything. And I can’t wait for that new baby smell to come to our house.

One of our family new year’s resolutions is to hold family home evening every single week. It’s an opportunity to spend time together as a family and learn about church-related subjects in the home. We tried having family home evening when we first got married but it was so…awkward. Without children or siblings, we’d just end up watching a movie or having a normal night. When there’s just 2 of you at home, it’s really hard to distinguish just what makes a night “family night”.

I set out to tackle this problem, because I really believe in the importance of establishing the habit of family night.

This is what I came up with:

Now our family home evenings go about like this:

• Sing a hymn that goes along with the lesson. Cam plays the piano, we both sing.
• We switch off who says the opening prayer.
• We go over finances. I have a little printout in my wallet that has our budget outline in it. Every time I pay a bill or make a purchase, I record the amount in the budget. That way, every Monday it takes me about 5 minutes to calculate how much we have left in each budget. We talk about upcoming expenses, things we’d like to use the miscellaneous budget for, and potential date ideas.
• We check in with each other on how we’re doing spiritually. How are our family prayers? Personal prayers? What are we studying in the scriptures personally? As a family? Are we happy with how family scripture study is going? etc. We also set a goal together that we want to work on the next week.
• We talk about our relationship. We start off with 3 compliments and an itch. The nice thing is that after you’ve given 3 sincere compliments to the other person, it’s pretty hard to come up with an “itch”. BUT, if there is ever something we really need to talk about, this is an easy way to get it out in the open. And then we do 3-minute massages. (Honestly, these normally wait until right before bedtime, but sometimes we sit on opposite ends of the couch and do foot rubs.) I strongly believe that physical touch is an essential part of feeling like you’re “on the same page.” It’s really hard to be annoyed with each other if you’re touching, and good feelings between spouses invites the spirit into our home. We also go over current stressors. If I don’t know what is stressing Cam out, I can’t help relieve that stress and vice versa. Also, a sure-fire way to increase the love you feel for your spouse or your spouse feels for you is to get rid of whatever it is that is setting off red flags in his or her mind.
• The last part of the paper is a week-at-a-glance calendar. There’s VERY little space here, for a reason. This is where we make sure we’re both planning on the same things for the upcoming week. It has virtually eliminated any freak outs caused by “You didn’t TELL me you were working overtime tonight.” And, “No. My work party is tonight. We have to be there at 6. You’ll have to cancel with so-and-so.” We outline major events in the upcoming week.
• We have a lesson. (Cam and I switch off who gives it).
• We have an activity. (This is anything from organizing the nursery to going on a walk to going to concert to playing a card game etc.)
• We have a treat. (And a closing prayer)

For a while this paper was posted on our fridge for the week, but since we’ve tried it for almost 2 months now, we’ve decided to save some paper because it has worked beautifully. I plopped mine in a frame and we use a dry-erase marker to fill it out every week. It sits on our end table next to the couch where we will see it all the time. Here’s what it looks like all filled out: (This was last week’s)

Every time someone has asked about it, they inevitably ask how long it takes to get through. 15 minutes tops. 10 minute lesson, and then a treat means family night is still about a half hour long, but we are so on the same page and prepared for the week, the difference is incredible.

And we feel like we’re on the same team.

I think that’s worth every second.

How far along? 27 Weeks exactly
Maternity clothes? There is a bit of a panicked undertone when it comes to getting dressed. The jeans are fine, not concerned about those. However, my sister-in-law gave me a huge bag of maternity tops for when I get HUGE (think 4 weeks from now). I just tried on every single one and none even cover my belly. She wore them in her last trimester with her twin boys. She is also about 5’4”. I am 6’0”. Stupid long torso. Not sure what I’ll be wearing in February. Could make for a rather “exciting” Valentine’s Day, don’t you think? jk. I will still have to get out of the house somehow!
Best moment this week: Appointment with the maternal fetal medicine specialist. Hands. down. We got a 90 minute ultrasound. Got to see our boys and get accurate measurements on them. I spent all week trying hard not to be worried. I did find myself paying a whole lot more attention to feeling kicks and movement from Nash, though. So much so, that I freaked myself out because Gray had flipped and I was no longer feeling kicks where he used to kick. Anyhow – we went into the appointment wanting to know what was going on with Nash and why he was “so small” according to our doctor. The ultrasound tech said that whoever did the ultrasound last week probably didn’t know what they were looking for because things couldn’t look more perfect. Nash (Baby A) is nice and squished at the bottom. I’m not dialated at all. He is weighing in at a healthy 2lbs 7oz. He’s in the 61st percentile. Above average. We like that. His head is in the 98th percentile. He’s in the 93rd percentile for height. He’s a big chunk according to the specialist. We like that. :) Gray is currently sitting on Nash’s head. Ah, the wrestling begins. He is weighing in at 2lbs 14oz. He’s in the 79th percentile. Very much above average. His head is in the 94th percentile. He’s in the 97th percentile for height. We finished measuring Gray and I said, “Gosh – we’ve got a linebacker!” The specialist said “You’ve got two!” She said that if I make it to 36 weeks that the boys will definitely come home from the hospital with us and that natural childbirth is back on the table. She also said that she sees no reason our boys won’t be between 5.5 and 6 pounds at birth. I’m thrilled. It’s also really encouraging to know that I am currently carrying over 5 pounds of baby already. We also determined that the boys are, in fact, fraternal. There are two placentas, two amniotic sacs, etc. Also, because we did a 5 day transfer, one embryo splitting earlier enough to create two placentas is impossible at that point. The embryo could’ve still split, but if that was the case, they would be sharing a placenta.
Movement: It seems to come and go. Maybe that’s because I just paid extra close attention this past week. Also, Gray flipped so I thought I was feeling extra kicks from Nash, but that wasn’t exactly the case. Their feet and legs are all in the same place now so I have no idea how I’ll keep them straight when I have to do kick counts next week.
Food cravings: Anything. Still not a huge fan of straight chocolate, but I did down a bunch of heath bar chocolate chip cookies on Sunday that made for a pretty blissful day. I’m just hungry all the time and I can’t get enough water.
Labor Signs: Lots of contractions, but not dialating at all. Which is really encouraging. The boys are taking the contractions just fine, so we should have a beautiful and hopefully uneventful next couple of months.
Belly Button in or out? Pretty sure the end is near. Still in though. :)
What I miss: Sleep. And yes, I realize it will only get worse. Cam no longer asks me how I slept. He asks if I slept at all. Most of the time, the answer is no. Naps are my only saving grace right now.
What I am looking forward to: My nap today. :) Watching Parenthood. Finishing the boys’ bookcase and rearranging the nursery.
Milestones: 9 weeks left! (until 36 weeks) Single digits! Crazy.
Realization of the week: I believe my dad put it best when he said to my mom, “She’s about to embark on a whole new level of tired she doesn’t even know exists yet.” I don’t think I’m quite there, but my word I can see where this is going.

At this point, I think Nash has Cam’s nose, and Gray has mine. We’ll just have to wait and see! :)

Cam and I have been trying to clean out our 2nd bedroom to make room for these two boys that are coming in March and it’s taken a little bit of creativity. We’ve ALMOST done it, there are just a couple more things to clear out. (If you are interested in buying our elliptical machine, let me know!) However, this sparked a need to re-do our living room. We love our purple couch, but since we finished it, our piano was still red and looking mighty out of place. Also, I was sick of the “shrine” to the television. Also, the couch was way too far away from the TV so watching movies was a pain (rough life, eh?). I also really just like change. So we rearranged the room one Saturday. Cam promptly broke the coffee table while trying to move it out of the way so we could try different couch layouts. The flimsy little thing just completely collapsed, which turned into a blessing in disguise. We went to Lowe’s, bought some yellow and black paint and the projects began.

Before:

Note the “shrine” to the TV. Hate that thing. Also, please take note of all the gross cords and the nasty gold cabinet. Blech.

After:

We painted the gold cabinet black. Trashed the top drawer, used part of the wood from the recently broken coffee table to make a shelf and created ourselves a little TV console that goes on the back wall of the living room. From the front door, it is the very last thing you see, which just makes me so happy. Also, the couches now face each other which encourages conversation rather than TV consumption. For the pattern on the drawer front, Cam painted it silver first and I cut a “stencil” out of contact paper using my silhouette machine. We applied the stencil, painted the rest black, and voila, we’re in action! I’m really REALLY pleased with how this turned out!(And I’m bummed the picture is blurry. I’m trying to figure out how to use my new camera…It’s hit or miss right now.)

(This pic is a little better, but I was trying to avoid using the flash. O well. Practice, practice, practice!)

Please note that you can’t see a single cord on the wall. This was BIG. Cam figured out how to hide all the cords for his surround sound system and all the cords from the Bluray player. I hate cords, and now they’re invisible. I’m happy. Also, the picture doesn’t show this very well, but the black paint inside that top portion really hides the media. It all just blends together. It makes it a lot less distracting/prominent in the room.

Cam then used the top of our little splintered coffee table to make me 3 shelves for the desk area. We moved our computer desk down out of the 2nd bedroom to make room for the boys and he built me a gorgeous new office area off in the nook of our living room. We have even MORE stuff in the living room now, but it’s never felt so spacious. Funny how that works. :)

That was the small part of the makeover. (Sometimes I’m amazed Cam hasn’t thrown in the towel yet. I am slowly but surely weakening him to my “wild” color schemes and patterns. Also, due to being prego, most of “my” projects quickly become “cam’s” projects while I sit on the couch and watch. Marry a good man, ladies.)

Thus began the piano makeover. (The red was clashing with my purple couch.)

And because I LIVE to have little bits of ourselves injected into every piece of home decor I possibly can, after Cam finished painting, I started cutting vinyl for the front of the piano face. It took a long time, but was so worth it!

The finished product:

The vinyl on the front face is scripted song lyrics that we love. We try to keep it classy…ha. I picked a nice cursive/handwritten font so the overall appearance would get the effect I was going after. I also think it makes for a really fun little “treat” for those who look close enough to actually try to read the words. Things start off with a raucous “Rah rah rah ah ah” from Lady Gaga. There are tributes to our roots with the words “I’m ready to go for it! I’m ready to reach for the Northern star!” (shout out to my other EFY counselors and kids!) I believe Katy Perry actually makes 2 appearances. (“Own the night like the 4th of July” and the slightly more risque “let you put your hands on me in my skin-tight jeans”). The entire right side is dedicated to Phoebe Buffay. “Are you in there little fetus? In 9 months with you come greet us? I will buy you some adidas!” Among other gems.

It’s quite possibly my favorite project. Ever.

(And thus we see a “hit” with the new camera. Hoo-rah for a sweet shallow depth of field! That was my goal today, and I figured it out. Boom baby!)

Overall Room After:

All I need now are curtains. I’m thinking grey and white chevron. Cam is thinking we don’t have money in the budget for that. We shall see, we shall see. :)